Self-Compassion Isn’t What You Think It Is

Self-Compassion Isn't What You Think It Is

For many women, self-compassion sounds like lowering your standards. If you’re kinder to yourself, won’t you become complacent? It’s a common fear. But the research says otherwise. Here are two …

When Getting Dressed Feels Hard

When Getting Dressed Feels Hard

Body Surveillance, Body Acceptance, and Learning to Be Kinder to Yourself   Have you ever stood in front of your closet and suddenly felt like nothing looked good? You try …

Why Your Negative Thoughts Feel So Convincing

Why Your Negative Thoughts Feel So Convincing

One of the most frustrating things about anxiety is that it rarely sounds irrational in the moment. In fact, anxious thoughts usually sound responsible, self-aware, or even productive. They can …

Burned Out? Here’s How to Reconnect to Joy

Burned Out? Here's How to Reconnect to Joy

If you’re a high-achieving woman, chances are you’re used to setting goals, creating plans, and working hard toward the things that matter to you. You know how to be productive. …

Why Do I Feel Sad After Graduation?

Why Do I Feel Sad After Graduation?

Understanding Graduation Grief Graduation is supposed to be a happy milestone. Whether you’re finishing high school, college, graduate school, or another major chapter, graduation is often framed as a time …

How to Recognize and Address Seasonal Depression

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Despair in the winter months can point to a serious condition. Experts recommend light boxes, earlier wake-up times and therapy. Seeing friends was normally the highlight of Kendra Sands’ week. …

What to Do If You Don’t Know Who You Are

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While some people have a strong sense of who they are, others may be left feeling that they don’t really understand their true selves. Feeling unsure of yourself can sometimes …

How To Boost Your Mental Health

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The relationship between resilience and mental health Having solid mental health doesn’t mean that you never go through bad times or experience emotional problems. We all go through disappointments, loss, …

What to Do When You Have No Motivation

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Whether you can’t get motivated to clean your house or you just aren’t feeling motivated to lose weight, a lack of motivation can be the biggest obstacle to reaching your …

What is Self-Confidence?

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The self-esteem movement has swept through Western culture over the past 50 years, with parents and teachers alike doubling down on the idea that improving children’s self-confidence will lead to …

The Toxic Effects of Negative Self-Talk

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We all have an inner critic. At times this little voice can actually be helpful and keep us motivated toward goals—like when it reminds us that what we’re about to …

How To Be Kinder To Yourself

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People who have greater levels of self-compassion tend to be more motivated, less lazy, and more successful over time. But just as important, they like themselves, even when they fall …

15 Issues Women Still Face in the Workplace

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Although we’ve come a long way throughout history by gaining the right to work and vote, there is still an obvious gender bias that lingers within the workplace – whether …

Why Our Brains Are Focused On The Negative

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Have you ever found yourself dwelling on an insult or fixating on your mistakes? Criticisms often have a greater impact than compliments and bad news frequently draws more attention than …

The Right Way to Follow Your Passion

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Passion can be a gift or a curse. Passion can be an energizing, fulfilling force, the stuff upon which businesses are built, works of art are created and Olympic medals …

What You Think About Your Emotions Matters

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Our underlying beliefs about emotions, whether or not we’re aware of the, can affect our happiness in life. Emotions can be mystifying at times. After all, who hasn’t been waylaid …

How to Stop Yourself From Crying

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Crying is a natural human response to joy, stress or sadness. But what if you don’t want to let the tears fall? Crying is entirely normal and healthy, but many …

Understanding the Psychology of Flow

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What exactly is flow? Imagine for a moment that you are running a race. Your attention is focused on the movements of your body, the power of your muscles, the …

Even a Little Exercise Might Make Us Happier

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Small amounts of exercise could have an outsize effect on happiness. According to a new review of research about good moods and physical activity, people who work out even once …

How to Project Power

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‘‘Keep your limbs away from your body,’’ says Deborah H Gruenfeld, a social psychologist who teaches at Stanford University. Some research shows that people posed in expansive postures feel more …

When Worry Takes Over

Why We Worry, And When It Takes Over Most of us worry about things from time to time, whether it’s about someone we love, something we might have forgotten to …

Healing A Strained Mother-Daughter Relationship

Mother-daughter relationships are completely unique to any other relationships we form and develop throughout our lives. Some mothers and daughters are extremely close, while others have a hard time even …

Dating Issues For Women

The dating world can feel overwhelming for just about anyone stepping into it. Whether you’ve been on the dating scene for awhile, or you’re recently out of a relationship and …

Mother/Daughter Relationships

On paper, there may be no closer relationship in the world than that of a mother and her daughter. The relationships between parents and children alone create a bond that …

Career Issues For Women

Women in the workplace are a powerful, driving force that have really been given a stronger voice than ever over the past decade. For the first time, we have women …

Being A Single Woman In NYC

We stereotype the world of singledom as something freeing, funny, and at the same time, unfortunate. From television shows about the struggles of dating, and even movies about how ‘awful’ …